Recently, I wrote about
our son who has been having trouble adjusting to first grade and the fear that
paralyzes him on most days. I would like to share another aspect of his journey
with you in hopes that it will encourage someone today.
On most days when we
drop A off at school, he is teary-eyed and scared of leaving us. We encourage
him the best we know how and send him off with tons of hugs and kisses. One of the
days that A was crying after he was already dropped off at school, a sweet
family friend saw him from across the playground and was instantly drawn to
him. She could clearly see he was distraught and upset. She could’ve just gone
about her day, head down after school drop off, staring down at her phone and
thinking of her ‘to do’ list; instead, she took the time to walk over to A and
comfort him. She decided in that moment, in the middle of all the busyness and
chaos of school drop off, to stand and pray over him. She prayed comfort, peace
and courage over him so that he would go about his day as the warrior God has
created him to be. In that moment, she didn't care that people in a public
school setting may have been judging her, all she cared about was the broken
heart of one of God’s children. When she texted to tell me this sweet act of
kindness, I couldn’t help but get tears in my eyes. My heart hurts for my son
everyday knowing he is so sad and I can’t instantly fix it all. I spent the day
knowing God truly held A close, closer than I ever will be able; I have to
trust that God will hold true to His promise to never leave nor forsake him.
Walking this journey
with my son has made me reflect on the goodness of God, even in the midst of
our trials. He finds us feeling alone and isolated in a crowd of people, He
sees us not being able to get out of bed because the darkness feels too great,
He mends our broken hearts and spirits and wipes every single tear. All of this
has reassured me that God is still working behind the scenes and is carefully
piecing together our stories. When the pain is overwhelming and life continues
at full speed all around us, God already knows how He will use our stories, our
pain and our losses, all for His good and glory.
He gives us people who
are willing to stand in the gap for us. The ones who say they will pray for us
and actually do. The ones that call and follow up to see how we are after a bad
day. The ones who show up in a bad season to encourage us and tell us we will
get through it all. When we surrender to the hard things and the pain of
our situations, God gives us freedom, joy and peace through it. I challenge us
all to even be grateful for the hard times, as it will force us to seek God
more fiercely.
God doesn't work independently; He works through His people.
This is evident in our lives, our experiences and throughout the Bible. He
uses His people to preach the good news of Jesus; to show love, hope and
compassion to those in need.
In the book of Ruth,
Ruth stands in the gap for the widowed Naomi despite her own pain. I love this
story of faithfulness and loyalty. Ruth put her own needs aside and remained
with her mother-in-law as she was in her darkest moments of grief. Through the
loss of both their husbands and Naomi's sons, they found God’s provision and
sufficient grace. They may not have both known it at the time, but God used
them in each other's lives to rebuild their futures and heal their hearts. Naomi was ready to give up, she thought her story was finished after the death of her entire family, but God knew differently. He was busy orchestrating a plan and placing them in the right place at the right time for restoration and redemption in their lives.
I want to encourage you
today, friend, that God isn't finished with your story either. Sometimes chapters in
our lives get inserted when we least expect it, but let God start to trade in
your sorrows and sadness for joy. Let Him use people in your life to love on
you and speak wisdom. Let them into your life and let them help you stand up,
dust yourself off and allow yourself to get stronger every day from your
circumstances.
Do you have someone standing in the gap with you on this journey of life? Are you doing it now for someone you know or love? Whether we are a
complete mess, feeling isolated, alone in a crowd or unable to take the next
step, God never leaves or forsakes us. Activate your faith in taking the next
step in your journey even though He has not revealed the full picture of your
life. My sweet son is stepping out in faith every morning of school and
continuing to trust in his God to provide the people and tools he needs to get
through. God can help all of us get through minute by minute if that is where
we are or provide just enough strength for our day. Wherever you are today,
allow people to stand in the gap with you, rip the band aid and allow full
healing to begin and trust a provisional God who loves and adores you.
Deuteronomy 31:6 says, “Be strong and
courageous. Do not be afraid or terrified because of them, for the Lord your
God goes with you; He will never leave you nor forsake you.”
Amen!! When it's darkest for us, we forget to look around & see who God sent to walk with us, pray for us & simply be a guide to the light for us. Thanks for the reminder to be on the lookout for others who need someone to stand in the gap for them. Doing for others is showing God''s love & it puts our own troubles in perspective.
ReplyDeleteGreat way to say it Behnaz! I definitely have experienced both in my own life. Being there for someone as they walk through hard times and having people show up when I myself can't get out of bed because the pain of life is too great. I love how God uses all of us, if we are willing, to bring love and encouragement to one another. Thank you for being a faithful reader��.
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